{"id":287,"date":"2017-05-22T11:20:18","date_gmt":"2017-05-22T11:20:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/?p=287"},"modified":"2017-06-27T13:02:42","modified_gmt":"2017-06-27T13:02:42","slug":"how-the-fear-of-rejection-is-manifested","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/?p=287","title":{"rendered":"How the Fear of Rejection is Manifested"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The fear of rejecton is manifested in your reluctance to cold call; the reluctance to pick up the phone and dial; the seereluctance to add one more dial when things are tough and you feel that you have called enough.<\/p>\n<p>It is also manifested in your fear of clsoing and asking for the sale.<\/p>\n<p>It is manifested in your need for approval.<\/p>\n<p>You feel that sales is about making friends and less about making customers.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t like to hurt other people\u2019s feelings by asking them for the close and putting pressure on them.<\/p>\n<p>You feel that they-the prospect- should know best, and you don\u2019t know best.<\/p>\n<p>If you are sales manager, you will identify the above in your sales person\u2019s consistent pattern of excuse-making; lack of confidence, not a self-starter; always in need of and asking for motivation; squealing about the leads\/data; no momentum; and off course- no sales.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The fear of rejecton is manifested in your reluctance to cold call; the reluctance to pick up the phone and dial; the seereluctance to add one more dial when things are tough and you feel that you have called enough. It is also manifested in your fear of clsoing and asking for the sale. It&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":289,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sales"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kennyrajah.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/Fear-of-rejection.jpg?fit=290%2C174&ssl=1","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p87Fhw-4D","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=287"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":300,"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287\/revisions\/300"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/289"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kennyrajah.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}